Meet Kristin.. My completely amazing and truly incredible “better” second half!
Most of you know her as my amazing second shooter.. but our relationship has been one of much more depth than just that.. I present you .. Our Love Story..
I have known Kristin ever since sophomore year in High School. I originally knew her as the girl who could do amazing flips and stunts on the Esperanza Cheer team! HAHA soo embarrassing! Ever since the first time I saw her perform a back handspring back tuck I knew it was love! I just had to meet this woman.. or 15 year old girl at the time. She was beautiful, cute, innocent, deathly shy, yet surprisingly fiery and spunky (little did I know). She had a class next to mine during 3rd period.. I needed a plan.. I strategically and repeatedly took my time packing up after class was over to synchronize her passing at just the right time.. Oh what a coincidence..as we would “bump” into each other 
we would walk and talk our way to the other side of campus where our next classes were.. Our friendship was formed..
We actually became pretty good friends. Writing letters back and forth between classes.. spending hours and hours on AIM and late night phone conversations.. I think I was falling…. yup… I was falling madly in puppy dog love with Kristin Wyley!.. She was everything I wanted.. funny, cute, smart she could do crazy flips for crying out loud.. she was perfect
After about 2 years of our friendship I decided I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend.. yes it took me 2 years.. Believe it or not I was the shy and quiet type too!! When I finally mustered up enough courage to ask her out…in a note… I tragically found out that she had already said yes to another boy… that same day!!!! I was devastated.. heart broken..She later told me I didn’t pursue her enough.. what was I going to do.. the girl of my dreams was with another man.. Well graduation came shortly after that and it was time to go our separate ways.. We went off to separate colleges.. heart broken..
There’s not much you can do in those situations, just pack up and move on.. I tried.. and some what succeeded.. She always had a piece of my heart.. I would always call her for her birthday and Christmas to she how she was doing.. call it strategy or not.. I genuinely was concerned for how she was doing..
several years passed by with randomly talking to her here and there..seeing each other at the occasional event held by a mutual friend.. but that was it.. and that quickly turned to not talking at all.. we had gone totally separate ways, completely different paths..pretty much she was no longer apart of my life at all..
A couple more years passed.. I had finished college at this point and had started my own career and photography studio.. Life was going well..
Then out of the blue a call from the past.. It was Kristin.. I was thrilled.. she never called me… it was always ME calling and “PURSUING” her..
She was inquiring about her older sister’s wedding and was looking for a photographer. I eagerly set up a lunch date to go over details of the big day, but mostly to catch up with “THE” Kristin Wyley..from High School.
I found out at lunch that day Kristin was in charge of looking for a photographer because she too had grown an interest in photography and knew what to look for and what she liked.. Well they booked me and I quickly offered an invitation for Kristin to come and help assist me at weddings.. I was PURSUING..
And you can all guess what she said.. She did.. she accepted my offer and has been shooting every single wedding with me for the last 2 years.. Along the way we have formed quite a relationship.. that was once “strictly business” 
to one of companionship. A crazy adventure indeed.. Sometimes turbulent.. borderline chaotic.. but we push on, and keep on course.. I couldn’t picture my life without her.
Well 3 weeks ago I mustered up enough courage and asked her father for his daughters hand in marriage.. and just last Friday I offered Kristin another offer.. a proposal in fact..
I formulated a list of all the different things I LOVE about Kristin Wyley.. and put in it a note.. This is the short list of what I told her: I want to share this so you all have a little more insight of who Kristin Wyley is and how much of an incredible person she is..
Kristin you are so adorable. Amazingly sweet, kind and caring, respectful and loving, gracious and humble, incredibly innocent and stunningly beautiful. I can always rely on you. I can trust you. You are a woman of integrity and honesty, self controlled and strong willed. You have a servant’s heart, obedient and patient, physically strong and capable. You are quick to listen and slow to anger, your love abounds exponentially every day. You brighten up every room you enter and bless me everyday with your presence. You amaze me. You are affectionate yet adventurous, competitive yet compassionate. You can flip like nobody’s business.. Your determined, nurturing, intelligent, witty. You’re so cute when you try new things, new foods especially. I love when you try to impress me and look for attention and affirmation. You’re soft, gentle and most importantly you serve God all those you love with all you know how…. and I am completely in love with you…
…I got down on one knee and told Kristin I wanted to spend every single day I have here on Earth with her as my wife… After all the tears had welled up in her eyes.. she gave me a huge hug and said “ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!” “ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!”.. after hugging and kissing and watching her jump around and crying some more I asked her again if that meant yes and and she said YES, OF COURSE!
It has been truly amazing to witness God’s sovereignty over all the years how he pulled us together in His perfect timing.
An awesome pair.. hand picked by God, restored by His grace and perfect complements for each other, I know we are going to have a wonderful life together and I can not wait to begin this incredible journey with you! I love you so soo very much Kris! Here’s to OUR STORY! I love you!
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Yay!!!! Congrats Brandon!!! I am so happy for you both and we will see you guys next month!
OMG!! Congrats Brandon and Kristin! That was a beautiful story
Chris & An
Wow, that’s exciting news Brandon! Congrats to you both!
Ok so you made me cry ALL OVER AGAIN! Thank you for the reminder of God’s amazing sovereignty over our relationship. He knew all along -from 15 years old- that we’d end up husband and wife! (although I’d say you probably did too!) You’re everything perfect for me (plus a little bit of kookiness). I love you mucho and I am so excited and so honored to become the wife of the most amazing man I’ve ever known! Love you!
Awee…..that was so sweet. Thanks sharing the whole story, I loved it. Plus it proves how sneaky boys can be to get what they want…..haha. Don’t worry Matt did it too.
So excited for you guys!! God’s timing is so perfect and he proves it in your relationship. I know that you guys will be such a dynamic duo for Christ in everything you do. Love you guys!!
OMG i’m seriously having my eyes water at this very momment!! lol. This story was amazing and i cant say how happy i am for the both of you:) I’m also fortunate that we ran into together at the Irvine Spectrum…it was a pleasure seeing the two of you and brought back the great high school days! Anyways i love the story Brandon and i’m certainly proud of who and what you became with photography! Your website is amazing and sure enough, i will be getting in contact with you when my day comes…hopefully soon. Kristin, you are certainly beautiful and Brandon, you always been the man with the good looks!!!! lol God couldnt have pick a more beautiful and inspiring couple:) In my regards, Scotty B:)
What a wonderful story! Thank you for sharing. Now I do feel like I know Kristin a little better….and perhaps you, too! Who knew what depths lurked in there?! Hugs and all best wishes to you both! I’ll be following with interest!
Congrats Brandon! I was super excited and proud for you and Kristin when i heard the news, But as a guy i was especially excited for YOU! What was funny was that while i was reading “YOUR STORY”, the first half sounded like something i would write or words that would be coming out of my mouth. It is so wonderful to see how our Lord has blessed you with getting the chance to go on missions, your business, and now your engagement! I am so happy for you and hope to see more of you bro, congrats again and God Bless!
Congrats to you both! I remember all of those simpler note passing days back in High School. Walking from main to west campus making lasting friendships! I love the story and how you got the girl…even if it did take a while! Thanks again for “working” my wedding, I’m so glad you were able to make it…I can’t believe it was over 3 years ago! I wish you both the best and all the love and happiness life can offer!
Michelle
Oh your story made me cry! Not that hard to do though. I am an emotional pregnant lady
Way to go guys!! You are perfect for each other and I am so happy for the both of you. Now we are both on the same journey.
CONGRATULATIONS!!! =) I’m so happy for you two~
I love that you posted this B …so precious!
CONGRATS!!! How exciting! Kyle and I are so happy for the two of you! What a wonderful story you have and what an amazing life is ahead for you!
My dearest Brandon, I truly have no words to express to you how happy I am that you are “officially” family! I have no doubt about the wonderful life that you and my beautiful God Daughter will have. I remember the way you were so welcoming and caring at Kimi’s wedding. You probably don’t remember this but Kris wasn’t feeling well and I watched you take such good care of her, you were also very attentive to me, bringing me water, taking my plate… I fell in love with you that day!! I thank God for you and look forward to many exciting things that I know He has in store for the both of you.
I hope you know that you are now my Godson. If there is anything you need from either Efrem or I, all you have to do is ask. Know that I will always keep you covered in prayer and lifted before God. My heart is overflowing!!!
Auntie Sherry
Yeeeeeeeay!! SO fun! Can I plan your wedding with you two or WHAT?
Haha- just let me know if you need help!
xoxo,
A.
I am so happy for you Brandon! It was so nice meeting you the other day and pray the Lord blesses your marriage greatly! Also..great job on the ring!
Congratulations! You two are a beautiful couple and it is obvious that you are smitten about each other. It was fun to watch you shoot our wedding because you were so professional and we just wanted to catch you kissing on the side! Didn’t happen though! Now we’re just wondering who’s going to shoot your wedding! haha! Love, Ashley & Damian Areyan
yay! Congrats you guys!! What a great story and reminder of God’s perfect timing!
Excited for you!!
Congratulations Brandon!!! I am truly happy for you both. Your love story surely put a smile on my face. Again, congrats to you and Kristin.
LOKITM
GREAT,,, thanks a LOT Brandon. You made me mess up my make up by crying. How stinkin sweet are you? You two truly are a wonderful couple and your lives will be blessed even more as they are now. We are happy to call you friends. Yaaaay,,, engaged!!!!!
This post just made me cry… your story is so beautiful and romantic. Your words for Kristin are so sweet and full of love. I wish you the best together.
Oh my gosh! I’m sitting here with tears welling up in my eyes while reading your testimony of love for your beloved fiancee. What a beautiful and touching LOVE STORY. A story only our Heavenly Father can formulate. Congratulations to the both of you and God bless always! Please keep up the A MAZING job you both do. I became a fan only recently after seeing your engagement photos from Jasmine’s blog. You two are a beautiful couple and from what I can tell, two very beautifully compassionate souls. Please, also continue to shine as Jesus’ light in the darkness and salt in this world!